Hello Blacksatino,
I met this girl during her NYSC which she did at my office. I was talking to some other girl before I met her but she was in the UK so it was basically all about chatting and FaceTime. On a Saturday night, I and the girl went out together, had a few drinks and ended up at mine. We have basically been seeing each other for more than a year now. She told me she was okay with me being a Muslim and all. But of recent, anytime an argument occurs she brings up religion issues, saying she doesn't know where this is leading to.
I usually pick her and drop her whenever we need to see or be together. Recently I started telling her
that she needs to start making an effort to come down to my place by herself, at least sometimes. She then told me that she can't and I was shocked. I told her that I won't be coming down to her anymore to pick her. Is anything wrong with that? She doesn't take taxis and her driver can't bring her. I even made arrangements with uber taxis for her and she refused. I can't continue like this and besides, it's not like we are heading towards marriage. How do I tell her, because I don't want a situation where by she will start crying and I don't want to pity her. Can I just send her a text and be like that I need some space?
Which ever way, one of you wil be heartbroken or none of u! Lol
ReplyDeleteTell her all what you dont like about her.. And if she tells you dt she cant shift ground, you just use dt opportunity to to announce to her that your relationship is therefore nt leadin to anywhere.. 'cos it is obvious dat d 2 of you are not so compartible..
Mayb she is also planning on how to break up wt you..who knws?
It's really tough wt the religious issue at hand.Should hv bn discussed well before going far wt the relationship
ReplyDeletelet it go, she don't love u. if she does she will go extra mile
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